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January 31 2018





my hot take as someone who has experienced the lowest of lows in terms of severe depression and anxiety and executive dysfunction: the whole “not everyone is neurotypical karen” mindset is legitimately damaging and destructive and ultimately will make you feel worse and more isolated

eating well and exercising and etc absolutely helps with mental illness. obviously it’s irritating to hear that when those things feel like impossible tasks, i get that, and i’ve been there. but forcing yourself to eat better, to walk more, to get up out of bed and shower even when you don’t want to, those things help. they clear your head. they make you feel better. they absolutely do. getting there is hard, but once you do it, it does help

rejecting any kind of help, even the most benign suggestion, from someone who is trying their best to think positively for you and shoulder the emotional burden with you, is going to make you feel worse. it’s going to make you feel that much more cut off and lonely and frustrated. i have isolated myself and ruined friendships with people because i chose to close myself off from people who were just trying to help and i convinced myself that they didn’t understand me and no one would ever understand me. what did that get me in the end? genuinely nothing. it made me feel even more alone.

in 2018 i encourage people who suffer like i have to see where people are coming from with cheesy self-care advice. they’re coming from the heart. and sometimes, doing a face mask or taking a hot bath or eating a nutritious meal or getting up to watch the sunrise or even just one yoga class can make you feel that much closer to the person you want to be. a lot of recovery from mental illness is “fake it till you make it” type shit. so don’t reject even the corniest advice because you are convinced it won’t help you. sometimes it really does. and you shouldn’t keep denying yourself even the smallest of victories because you feel like it’s easier to wallow in how bad you feel. it is so difficult to do good things for yourself and your body, but it is so rewarding

November 05 2017

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My Favourite Ladies: Emily Locke 

“I built you up too much in my head. I did the same thing with the Hobbit movies.”

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CutiePieSensei is such a beast.


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1x07 // 2x09

November 03 2017

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Joe Keery for GQ



I asked one of my (male) friends to stop using the phrase “man up” and he has been using “fortify” for the past two weeks instead and it’s just a little thing but honestly it makes a difference

and tbh it’s also pretty funny when I start to deflate in the library and he leans over and goes “FORTIFY”

Dude, fortify is bangin’. That makes things like you’re some kind of RPG character. Fortify is way better than “man up.”

Barb…Borb…Bob… coincidence? I think not?

November 02 2017




Edgar Allen Bitch

F. Thot Fitzgerald

E. E. Cummings

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totally 👏🏾 here 👏🏾 for 👏🏾 this

FINALLY a show about Native Americans!!!!!! And I’m down for any Issa Rae!!

watching all-a-dis


Any show where the creators pat themselves on the back for adding diversity always ends up sucking ass

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stop telling girls interested in lit that they need to read these great american classics by violent misogynists in order for their opinions to be valid or for their minds to be developed

Stop telling girls who’ve already read misogynistic pieces that their opinions aren’t valid if they thought the book was shit


Sometimes it is your fault.. Sometimes you don’t listen well enough, you’re selfish, you’re rude and you aren’t always right. Sometimes you fucked it up and tbh that’s okay. It happens, learn from it, apologize and keep it moving. Just because you fucked up doesn’t mean you’re a bad person. Don’t dwell on it

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why don’t at least half my followers on here follow me on instagram i don’t understand why you hate me

Put your Instagram name in the tags!

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Omg it’s Scooby!

November 01 2017

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Wonder Woman extended scene.

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It’s Nov. 1 get to writing bitch

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